Sometimes there’s a grey area, where I see the lover in question is missing them and often WANTS to return, but a myriad of different reasons such as FEAR/ DISTANCE/ FAMILY or PEER PRESSURE is stopping them. Show
⇩ Pin it! ⇩So, if YOU are missing your ex, 5 things you can do to make your lover come back.1 – DO NOTHING!!That’s right. DON’T contact them at ALL (obviously) but more importantly…. DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT THEM!
2 – THINK OF SOMETHING POSITIVE!And I mean ANYTHING in your life that makes you smile. Maybe it’s success at work or your beloved pet, or a night out with your mates, or a walk in the park or a trip to the beach, or painting, writing or reading…
3 – GET A LIFE.You’ve heard this before of course. It’s probably in every self-help book ever written. If you want to make your lover come back, get HAPPY. Relationships work when two happy, aligned people fall in love with the happy, aligned inner being of each other, not out of need or because something is missing. (& also, like number 2, your ex will sense your lack of attention on him or her and find themselves unconsciously wondering what you’re up to!)
4 – WRITE A LIST OF POSITIVE ASPECTS ABOUT YOUR EX.This is for those moments when you’ve tried everything, but still find yourself thinking about your ex. So if you really want your lover to come back, you need to ONLY focus on the GOOD stuff about them. Because we attract into our lives exactly what it is we are ‘vibrating’ – basically the emotions we are feeling – that’s all we are, magnets! And if you are ONLY focused on the good stuff about them, that’s ALL you will attract!!! NOTE: This one may be too difficult for you without getting distracted or angry with how they hurt you before, so if that’s the case, MISS THIS STEP OUT – your happiness is too important! 5 – BE HAPPY WHEN THEY DO MAKE CONTACT.Sounds obvious, but how many times have your well-meaning intentions ended up with you laying into your lover for being late, hurting you in the past, wearing a gross T-shirt or whatever… If you really DO want to start again with your ex then you’re gonna have to be prepared to start afresh and LET GO of the past. Otherwise, you’ll just attract the same relationship over again – and look how that ended up! Remember your list of positive aspects? NOTE: I do NOT mean be a doormat!!!
And this will help you create a wonderful new relationship with ALL the qualities you DO want, without the crap that you don’t!) Need more in-depth info to make your lover come back?Then here is the ultimate Tarot spread for asking if you and your ex are getting back together! (You’re welcome).
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AliHi, I’m Ali. A Tarot and Astrology wizard on a mission to transform your love-life. I believe in love, freedom, mojitos and bright colours and want to put the romance back into your life! Like my work? Buy me a coffee 😍 Will my ex come back astrology?According to astrology, there may even be times that your ex may return to your life. This is often the case during certain retrogrades, especially Mercury and Venus retrogrades.
When should you not do a tarot reading?When Not to Read Tarot. In an Emotional Crisis. You're really upset about a recent breakup. ... . When You Want a Certain Outcome. To continue with the scenario above, say you want to read cards and are hoping they will tell you you'll get back together with your ex. ... . When You're Impatient. ... . When Your Judgement is Clouded.. Which Tarot cards mean reunion?Hanged man, justice card, temperance card, and tower card are all tarot cards for reconciliation.
How long does it take for an ex to come back?We conducted a study on people who get their ex back and keep them and we found that most people who get their ex back and stay with their ex, took at least one month to get back together. In most cases, people reconciled within 1-6 months of breaking up.
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