Can you keep ashes at home Hindu

Inability to perform after-death rituals for departed loved ones due to curbs has compounded the pain of many families during the lock-down to check spread of corona virus. Urns containing ashes are piling up in crematoriums and Shantipath and 13th day rituals pending too.

More than 300 urns containing ashes are waiting for immersion in the lockers of Bhaisakund cremation ground and 50 urns at Alambagh and Gulalaghat crematorium are also waiting to be collected due to the ongoing lockdown.

Shantipath and terahnvis (13th day ritual) of more than 400 people are also pending.

In Hindu religion, the mortal remains of the dead are cremated and then the ashes are immersed into rivers, most preferably the Ganga. Pandit Ram Keval Tewari said,“ In Hinduism it is said a soul gets salvation only after immersion of ashes. But for the past 21 days, due to the lock-down the relatives of the dead are unable to move out with ashes to immerse them.” Due to travel restrictions they are not able to reach places like Haridwar, Varanasi and Kanpur etc for immersion.”

Pandit Kaushalendra Pandey of Bhaisakund Ghat said, “Usually shantipath and terahnvi are announced on the ghat but more than 400 people have postponed both the rituals and have planned them after lock-down opens.”

There have been more than 500 deaths after March 24 when lock-down started. “That’s why most of the people chose to keep the ashes in lockers instead of immersing them immediately,” said in charge of the Bhaisakund cremation ground Surya Vikram Singh.

He said, “Lockers are limited. We have around 84 lockers at Bhaisakund and 40 odd at Gulalaghat and Alambagh where the ashes are kept. But due to unprecedented circumstances people are not able to immerse them. As a result, now more than one urn is kept in a single locker. In some lockers, there are more than 5 urns. However, the ashes carry names of the dead with serial number so that they are not mixed up.”

Presently we have kept 12 lockers empty for VVIPs and VIPs said another official of LMC . While rest of them are occupied.

Municipal commissioner Indramani Tripathi said, “ These are difficult times , are we are fighting corona so we need cooperation from everyone.The LMC is trying to get more lockers and planning to double the number of lockers after lockdown.”

Hindus believe that when the physical body dies, the soul reincarnates into another life force. Hinduism, originating in India, teaches that the destiny of a soul’s next incarnation depends on the actions of the individual in their last physical life, otherwise known as Karma.

To leave the repetitive cycle of reincarnation, a person must reach the moksha, which is the transcendent state of salvation when the soul is absorbed into Brahman, who is the highest god of Hinduism.

Although this belief is widely accepted with Hinduism, it is important to understand that there are many denominations of Hinduism, each with differing customs and beliefs.

Planning a Hindu funeral

In Hinduism, traditionally cremation often occurs within 24 hours of death. This is not always possible now, as crematoria are often quite busy and may not be able to offer a time slot at short notice. However, funerals may still take place fairly quickly.

Hindu funeral traditions

After death, the person who has passed away is only touched when absolutely necessary. Traditionally, the bereaved wash their loved one. In cases when this is not possible, a funeral home will attend to this ritual.

A viewing will normally take place, but since cremation typically happens within 24 hours after death, they are usually very brief. For the same reason, embalming is rare and unnecessary.

The person who has passed away will be displayed in a simple casket with flowers placed at the feet, holy basil sprinkled on the inside and a garland of flowers or a necklace of wooden beads draped around the neck. If the person is male, ash wood or sandalwood may be placed on their forehead. Turmeric is used if the person is female.

Mantras and hymns are recited by family and friends around the casket for the duration of the viewing. Towards the end of the viewing, some Hindus observe the custom of placing rice balls close to their loved one.

Hindu funeral service and cremation

All Hindus are expected to be cremated, except for babies, children and saints. Traditionally, all cremations would take place on the Ganges River, but with Indian Hindus now living all over the world, it is expected and accepted for cremation to happen locally.

Today, most crematoria can accommodate the traditions and rituals of a Hindu cremation. Typically, the casket is carried into the crematorium feet first, while mourners recite prayers. Then the bereaved will circle their loved one in prayer and observe the cremation. Only after the cremation is complete will the service be over and the mourners will go home.

After the funeral

Traditionally, on the following day, the ashes are immersed in the Ganges River as it is considered sacred in Hinduism. Hindus living outside India may choose to repatriate their loved one’s ashes to India so that they can be spread over the Ganges, but this is not always practical or affordable. As a result, more rivers are becoming acceptable substitutes all over the world.

Typically, the bereaved mourn for 13 days. During this time, it is customary for some to have a picture of their loved one displayed in the house, adorned with a garland of flowers. Visitors are welcomed during this period, and a ritual that helps the soul to reincarnate is performed.

On the year anniversary of the death, the family celebrate a memorial event that honours their loved one’s life. Once this memorial is completed, the family members will continue with their normal lives.

Hindu funeral etiquette

What to wear to a Hindu funeral differs greatly from most other major religions. Mourners should wear white casual clothing to the viewing and service – black formal clothing is not appropriate.

According to Hindu funeral tradition there is usually an open casket and guests are expected to view it. You should do so quietly and respectfully, and without touching the person who has passed away.

Hindu funeral flowers are a common tradition. If you wish to send flowers, they should be sent to the family or funeral director before the funeral service. It is not considered appropriate to bring food as a gift.

Non-Hindu mourners are generally welcome to participate in the funeral service’s rituals, but there is no pressure to take part if this compromises your own religious beliefs.

What can I do with Indian Ashes?

Traditionally, the ashes should be immersed in the Ganges River, though more and more other rivers are becoming acceptable substitutes. For Hindus living outside of India, there are companies that will arrange for the shipment of the cremated remains to India and will submerge the ashes in the Ganges.

Do Hindus scatter ashes?

The Hindu Belief Many families choose to scatter directly into the sea as this has flow too. You can choose to scatter the ashes from a boat or the shoreline/riverbank. Reincarnation is central to Hindu beliefs, this concept called moksha is very profound. The immersion of the ashes in water is central to this.

Is cremation forbidden in Hinduism?

The only Hindus typically not cremated are babies, children, and saints, who are believed to be pure and unattached to their bodies; therefore they may be buried instead of cremated.

Should urn be kept at home?

Firstly, it's worth noting you don't need to do anything with their ashes if you'd prefer to keep them. You can choose not to scatter them and keep them at yours or a loved one's home.