Download Article Show Download Article It can be nerve-wracking to try to talk to a girl you don’t know, but with some conversation pointers, you’ll be feeling confident and ready to give it a try. If you’re approaching a girl in person, give her a warm smile and read her body language to see if she seems ready to talk. Then strike up a conversation about where you are, ask her friendly questions, make her laugh, and leave her wanting more by asking for her contact information. If you’re talking online or on a dating app, start out with a friendly, personal message that proves you’re thinking of her.
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ReferencesAbout This ArticleArticle SummaryX While it can be nerve-wracking to talk to a girl you don’t know, try to use your body language to tell her you're interested and have a few conversation starters ready to feel more confident. As you approach the girl, make eye contact with her and smile warmly to show her that you’re friendly and approachable. If you're feeling nervous, take a few breaths and remind yourself of your best qualities, like being funny or kind. When you’re ready to strike up a conversation, try talking about where you are. For example, if you’re at a coffee shop, ask her to help you decide what drink to order. After chatting for a minute, introduce yourself and ask for her name. To keep the conversation going, try asking some open-ended questions, like “What do you like best about this coffee shop?” Before you leave, ask if you can keep in touch by saying something like “I have to go now, but I’d love to chat more. Could I get your number?” To learn how to ask the girl out on a date, keep reading! Did this summary help you? Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 306,128 times. Reader Success Stories
Did this article help you?How do I approach a stranger girl?Look for Go Signals. Do approach a girl if she is sitting/standing and looks relaxed. ... . Do approach if you've noticed her sending several glances and/or smiles your way. ... . Don't approach a girl if she looks upset. ... . Don't approach a girl if she is deeply preoccupied with something.. How do you talk to a stranger girl without being boring?Start with a light topic.
Don't tell her about the weird rash on your back or ask her about her most embarrassing moment; you can save that stuff for when you get to know each other better. Stick to the PG topics that can still lead to an interesting conversation without making the girl feel uncomfortable.
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