Saying youre going to do something and not doing it

For example, my SO always talks about getting all of these tattoos, but then never does. Or, I talk about how I want to go on all of these world-travelling adventures, but then never do. Looking for more than "lacking follow-through."

asked Aug 20, 2018 at 14:32

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... a word or term for always saying you're going to do something, but then not doing it...

talk is cheap - prov. It is easier to say you will do something than to actually do it. (Saying this in response to someone who promises you something implies that you do not believe that person will keep the promise.)

  • My boss keeps saying she'll give me a raise, but talk is cheap.
  • You've been promising me a new dishwasher for five years now. Talk is cheap.

answered Aug 20, 2018 at 15:32

Saying youre going to do something and not doing it

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Talks a big game. It implies trying to gain stature by talking about proposed actions, but not doing anything in practice.

answered Aug 20, 2018 at 16:04

perpetualperpetual

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Flaky could work - "not reliable in performance or behavior : undependable"

answered Aug 20, 2018 at 19:27

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You can use all bark but no bite to describe such a situation. The second example from the citation shows the usage.

Full of talk that is more threatening or impressive than that which one can or will actually do.
He always threatens to call the police if I don't stay off his lawn, but he's all bark and no bite.
John talks big about how much money he'll make someday, but he's all bark and no bite.
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answered Aug 20, 2018 at 19:13

Saying youre going to do something and not doing it

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Synonyms


bother

verb

if you do not bother to do something, you do not do it, either because there seems to be no good reason or because it involves too much effort

abstain

verb

formal to not do something that is likely to cause serious problems

neglect

verb

to fail to do something that you should do

refrain

verb

formal to stop yourself from doing something. This word is often used in official announcements or signs

let nature take its course

phrase

to allow something to develop without trying to influence it

make no move

phrase

to do nothing

can’t bring yourself to do something

phrase

to be unable to do something because it is too unpleasant or embarrassing, or makes you too upset

omit to do something

phrase

to fail to do something that would have been helpful or honest

stand by

phrasal verb

to not take action when you should

leave

verb

to not do something, especially because you prefer to do it later or so that someone else can do it


More synonyms


blow off

phrasal verb

Americaninformal to not do something you had agreed or arranged to do

bottle it

phrase

to not do something because you do not feel brave enough

bottle out

phrasal verb

to not do something because you do not feel brave enough

chicken out

phrasal verb

to not do something you were going to do because you are too frightened

come close to (doing) something

phrase

to nearly do something

come within an inch of doing something

phrase

to almost do something

demur

verb

formal to refuse to do something

dig your heels in

phrase

to refuse to do something even though other people are trying to persuade you

do something by proxy

phrase

if you do something by proxy, someone else does it for you

drop the ball

phrase

to fail to do something that you are responsible for doing

give something a miss

phrase

to decide not to do something that you usually do

it’s more than my job’s worth

phrase

used for saying that you will not do something because you would lose your job if you did it

I wouldn’t think of doing something/I would never think of doing something

phrase

used for saying that you would not consider doing something, for any reason or in any situation

keep off

phrasal verb

to not go onto a particular area of land

leave it at that

phrase

to not do anything more about something

leave/let something alone

phrase

to stop trying to deal with something

leave someone/something hanging

phrase

to fail to solve a difficult situation, or to let someone remain in a difficult situation without solving it

leave something to chance/fate

phrase

to not try to change the way that something is developing or happening

let it/things lie

phrase

to not do or say anything because you might make a difficult situation worse

let sleeping dogs lie

phrase

to leave a person or situation alone if they might cause you trouble

miss

verb

to fail to be present for something, or to not be in a place when someone else is there

not do a stroke of work

phrase

to do no work at all

not soil your hands

phrase

formal to refuse to do something that you do not approve of

resist

verb

to stop yourself from doing something that you would very much like to do

sit by

phrasal verb

to take no action when something bad is happening

sit tight

phrase

to stay where you are, or to not take action until the right time

skip

verb

to not do something, but to do the next thing instead

stand around

phrasal verb

to stand somewhere and do nothing, often when you should be doing something

stand aside

phrasal verb

British to not involve yourself in a situation, especially one that you should be trying to prevent

stand/sit idly by

phrase

to see something bad happening without trying to prevent it

stand there

phrase

to stand in a place for no particular purpose, without doing anything useful

stop short of (doing) something

phrase

to not do something, although you almost do it


What is it called when you say your gonna do something but don t?

Answering the question in general terms, the word I'd suggest is procrastinator. If the person's slowness at getting round to the tasks is involuntary -- because they simply don't have enough time to do the jobs they said they were going to do -- over-promiser or over-optimist may be more to the point.

What is it called when someone says you did something you didn t?

Answer : It is simply called "denial" or "inadmission". Some people may say that it is called "recantation" or "disavowal". But "recantation" and "disavowal" mean that a person agrees that they said something before but now they take it back or unsubscribe from it.

What is a word for not doing something?

desist. verbstop, refrain from. abandon. abstain. avoid.