She hurt me but i love her

Hey there Aidan,

Thanks for reaching out to us here on the forums.

I am sorry to hear that your girlfriend is treating you like this. If she loves you, she should trust you to be able to hang out with your friends. I have been with my partner now for a year and a half, and like you and yours, we see each other almost every day. However we made a firm agreement when we first got together that we would let each other still see our friends if we wanted to, because maintaining healthy friendships outside of your relationship is something I think is really important and contributes a lot in regards to one's mental health.

It's basically inevitable that you're going to bicker with someone eventually if you're around them 24/7, but it's the way that you both handle your arguments that is important. I cannot stress enough how important communication is. You need to tell your girlfriend how you're feeling! It is not fair of her to restrict you from seeing anyone besides her, and it isn't a measure of love, rather I would say that she is fearful of you cheating or something like that.

As the others have said, nothing will change unless you talk to her about it. After all, we can't read minds, and she may not even be aware how she's making you feel.

Crystal

Can someone hurt you if they love you?

Love is closely connected with vulnerability: the ability to hurt and to be hurt. Although some kinds of hurt in love are intended, most of them are not. Nevertheless, someone who deliberately hurts another person can simultaneously claim to love that person.

Why do I love someone but hurt them?

We hurt the one we love for several reasons: 1) Unconscious re-creation of emotional trauma – we all experience various degrees of emotional hurt and trauma growing up. Unfortunately, we form part of our identities around whatever we experience, be it love, distance, drama, or verbal or physical abuse.

What do you do when the person you love hurts you?

The only way to truly stop feeling guilty after you've hurt someone you love is to forgive yourself. Self-forgiveness is the only way to truly recover and move forward after you've hurt someone you love. Before forgiving yourself for having hurt someone you love, though, you'll want to apologize to them first.

How do you fix a girl that hurts you?

How to Get Back a Girl Who You Hurt.
1 Text her to invite her to talk in person..
2 Apologize sincerely for what you did..
3 Listen to her side of the story..
4 Ask for forgiveness..
5 Offer to make it up to her..
6 Shower her with compliments so she knows you care..
7 Take steps to be a better person..