Where the Wild Things Are theory

In Maurice Sendak's 1963 children’s book, Max, a little boy in a wolf costume, is sent to bed without supper. So he sails on a boat to a faraway land where he tames the Wild Things, becomes their king, and leads them on a wild rumpus. Here's what you should about about this spare, strange, classic book.

Sendak was working as a children's book illustrator when editor Ursula Nordstrom (who also did Charlotte's Web, Goodnight Moon, and Harold and the Purple Crayon) offered to let him write his own book. He came up with the title Where The Wild Horses Are, which Nordstrom thought was "so poetic and evocative," according to Sendak. Then Sendak, who was a self-taught artist, discovered that he couldn't draw horses. When he told Nordstrom his problem, she said, "Maurice, what can you draw?"

"Things," he replied.

When developing the monsters for the book, Sendak drew on his childhood memories of his immigrant relatives. His uncles and aunts would come on Sundays and "all say the same dumb things," he recalled:

"How big you are, how fat you got, and you look so good we could eat you up. So the only entertainment was watching their bloodshot eyes and how bad their teeth were. You know, children are monstrously cruel about physical defects—the hair curling out of the nose, the weird mole on the side of the head. And so, you would glue in on that and then you talk about it with your brother and sister later. And they became the Wild Things."

As a child, when Sendak was driving his mother nuts, she would call him "vilde chaya," or wild animal in Yiddish. In the book, the mother calls Max "Wild thing!" and he says, "I'll eat you up!"

Sendak repeatedly said he didn’t try to write for children, he just tried to write about himself and people he knew. The books were a form of self-expression for him. Where The Wild Things Are was based on his experiences living as a child in Brooklyn with his hard-working father and a mother who, in his words, “had problems emotionally and mentally.”

"That’s what art is. I mean, you don't make up stories, you live your life," he said in a 2004interview with Bill Moyer, adding, "I was not Max. I did not have the courage that Max had, and I did not have the mother that Max had."

"I often went to bed without supper because I hated my mother’s cooking,” he said. “So, to go to bed without supper was not a torture to me. If she were going to hurt me, she would make me eat.”

Where The Wild Things Are was an immediate popular and critical success, winning the 1964 Caldecott Medal for Most Distinguished Picture Book. It was also frequently banned for having scary or dark undertones and for a lack of moralizing. In 1969, psychiatrist Bruno Bettelheim mentioned the book in his column for Ladies' Home Journal, saying that it would cause fear of desertion in children. He asserted that Sendak didn't understand "the incredible fear it evokes in the child to be sent to bed without supper, and this by the first and foremost giver of food and security—his mother."

Although Bettelheim later admitted he hadn't read the 37-page book, the criticism stuck with Sendak. From then on, he called him "Brutal-heim."

Composer Oliver Knussen wrote a one-act opera based on Where The Wild Things Are, which premiered in Brussels in 1980. Since the Things are unnamed in the book, for the opera, Sendak gave them the names of his relatives: Tzippy, Moishe, Aaron, Emile, and Bernard.

In 1983, Disney owned the film rights to Where The Wild Things Are. While an animated feature never materialized, they did make an animated short about the book to demonstrate 3D animation. There’s also a 1973 cartoon of the book, directed by Gene Deitch.

The 2009 movie, like the book, was criticized for its darker tone. Director Spike Jonze said his goal "wasn't to make a children's movie. I wanted to make a movie about childhood." The struggle over tone led Jonze to move the film from Universal to Warner Bros., where there were more arguments over how to translate the book into live action. When the film came out, it was marketed to adults rather than to children.

Sendak didn't know why Where The Wild Things Are was such a hit, but one thing was for sure: He sure as hell wasn't going to write a follow-up. "People say, 'why don't you do Wild Things 2?' Wild Things 1 was such a success!" he said in an interview with the Tate. "Go to hell. Go to hell."

A version of this story ran in 2015; it has been updated for 2022.

All the wild things were once children who ran away.

Had Max stayed with them, he too would have become a wild thing, probably a wolfish looking one.

The Wild Things are how Max views himself and the people around him.

Each one of the Things is either part of his personality, or someone else in his life as represented in his little mind.

  • Carol: The most impulsive and immature Thing represents Max at his core, being an optimistic yet troubled child with a temper.
  • K.W. is his mother and sister rolled into one. Her loving compassion towards Max is his mother, and her loner attitude and not wanting to be around the other Things is his sister. She represents the older female presence, but through the differing approaches and may represent support in Max's life.
  • Douglas: Douglas is Max's morality. Douglas is always there to calm Carol when he starts to act up, but it doesn't always succeed. A classic conflict between the id and the superego.
  • Judith: Judith is the first half of Max's temper. She is the anger, passion, energy, and drive inside of Max. Though she can be aggressive and demanding, she is also fun loving and willing to do things.
  • Ira: Ira is the Blue Oni to Judith's Red Oni. He is the second half of Max's temper. He is calm, passive, nonchalant, and indifferent. Though he is calm and collected, he's also a push over and very passive. He is the recessive half of Max's temper.
  • Alexander: Alexander embodies Max's insecurity and feelings toward adults in general. Alex, like Max, is constantly being ignored, belittled, and looked over by the others.
    • Alternately, Alexander could also further represent Max's feelings of being neglected and even apathy given the reaction to Carol harming Alexander, which could represent how Max is currently unaware or not understanding how his base desires cause him to get hurt.
    • More inclined to think he represents the child's logic and reasoning. He acts immature sometimes because he's still developing, that's why he's the smallest monster, he can only grow if Max does as person. Even then he knew Max was never a king, just a regular human straightaway, but said nothing and keeps it a secret as it would only upset Carol.
  • Bernard (the bull): Bernard is the suppressed sadness Max feels constantly. This is more than likely due to his father being no longer around, and his mother and sister being too busy for him anymore. Him not being involved yet always there represents Max not acknowledging his sadness.

Max's mom works for Pixar

We hear her talking on the phone in one scene to a Mr. Lasseter. Perhaps she's taking a break from work?

Max had been kidnapped by a group of pedophiles

The Wild Things are just his image of them. They are a group of immature men and women who have nefarious plans, but they never got past the stage of giving Max everything he wants before Max escapes. If he would have stayed, he would have ended up "eaten" just like the other kids before him.

In the beginning, Max is displaying characteristics of burgeoning, neglect-defined ASPD such as impulsivity, acting out and violence as a way to get attention, and cruelty to animals. Like John, he acts this way because of family problems that aren't fully explained-it's only implied that his dad is thoroughly out of the picture. He hates people "looking at [him] like [he's] a bad person" and strives to be kind and brave, but often fails and ends up hurting himself or others.

While Max seems in a better headspace at the end, it often takes more than once to learn a lesson, leading to his mother taking him to a therapist and him getting diagnosed with conduct disorder.

Besides the uncanny physical resemblance, this also explains why John is so quick to accept that Crowley isn't human-he's seen fantastic Things before, so actual monsters aren't a stretch.

The Wild Things are Max's way of coping with his parents' divorce.

Specifically, Carol, a male Wild Thing who's immature and selfish but speaks with the voice of an adult man, is Max's dad and KW, a female who speaks with the voice of a mature and motherly adult woman, is Max's mom. Notably, Carol is incredibly resentful of KW for meeting new friends, the same way Max's mom seems to be interested in another man. And at one point near the end, Carol becomes incredibly angry and Max, and he lashes out violently, the way a father with too big a temper would lash out at a son who disappointed him. A bit later, Carol calms down a bit and manages to have a tense-but-meaningful conversation with KW, asking very soberly, "Am I as bad as he says I am?" or in other words, "Am I really a bad dad?" KW says just enough to placate him, and when he leaves, Max (who is literally inside her belly at this point — talk about your Freudian imagery) reminds her that Carol "really does love [her]," which only leads her to muse that "it's hard being a family sometimes." The language and the imagery are really overwhelming.

Max didn't get out of K.W.'s Stomach.

She kept him in there and the rest of the movie was his dying hallucination.

Carol's attempts at eating Max as well as the notes of other kids being eaten is an allegory for succumbing to one's hostile emotions

  • Carol is the closest to Max in terms of personality, representing him as he is and Max nearly being eaten by Carol could represent how Max's selfishness is beginning to consume him, despite not wanting to hurt anyone. Max leaving is trying to come to terms to the fact to take other peoples' feelings.
  • Which makes Carol's words on other kings being eaten allegorical. As in other children who have succumbed to their negative emotions and becoming adults who may not have been able to deal with the world properly.

What is the main message of Where The Wild Things Are?

Psychoanalyst Joan Raphael-Leff, points out that this story acknowledges that when a child is in a crazed tantrum, they lose sight of all the good in that moment. What is often overlooked, she says, is the effect a child's emotions has on the carers, and all the wild things they stir up within the grown-up.

What do the monsters in Where The Wild Things Are represent?

The big and terrifying but easily swayed creatures of the forest represent Max's fiercest emotions. When he is banished to his room for a time-out without dinner, he surrenders himself to them, entering in a "wild rumpus" with his anger and upset.

Is Where The Wild Things Are about autism?

For some students who have autism, the movie could be a movie-social story about emotions: recognizing the facial expressions of different emotions and understanding how strong emotions can be overwhelming and have consequences.

Where The Wild Things Are controversy?

Readers believed Where the Wild Things Are was psychologically damaging and traumatizing to young children due to Max's inability to control his emotions and his punishment of being sent to bed without dinner. Psychologists called it “too dark”, and the book was banned largely in the south.