I'm glad someone understands. I know this guy who dedicated an entire website to this issue. He has 600+ "followers" who said... basically along the lines of, "finally someone's speaking our heart and isn't afraid of being shot down!" This guy writes at least 1 analytical essay a month to criticize women who had sex with men, why men shouldn't and wouldn't have sex with these dirty women, how hymen is there for a purpose so men can check on the chastity of women... Gosh, I lost his website, but he's .. just amazing. He's Chinese, so I guess American girls don't have to fear guys like that "as much." My favorite on his website was something like... Semen can stay in a vagina and become part of the outer skins of vagina, then later on when women have sex with another man and become pregnant, the genes from the first man will also be in the child, so the man will actually be having sex with a man and a woman + his child won't really be his... he actually found some German studies to back that up. I was disgusted. ... yeah, I know plenty of Asian men who think like that. Not just Chinese, but also Japanese (older generation), Korean... Vietnamese... Thanks to them Asians are off limits for me now. I wouldn't dare date one of those and later on find out he's twisted. These guys really hurt their women if they find out she wasn't a virgin. If they "suspect" that after a marriage they'll basically treat her as a slave and use that as an excuse to commit adultary. There are also thousands of women who are still suffering from that mentality but don't know how to get out. Their husbands are abusive, treat them like slaves, call them words which you can't use on this forum... abuse their children because "who knows if that's my kid!" Someone like that once said, "It's a sin to be a woman." He's a 32 year old guy who really should have been educated enough to value gender equality. Another guy said, "If you're not a virgin anymore you're a wh0re." I suspect he thinks the same of his mom. ... It's flat out disgusting but it's really happening. I even recently had a guy friend who said, "Don't ever believe a guy when he tells you he doesn't care about virginity." He wanted to warn me because he just recently saw too many cases of women being mistreated due to that little piece of meat. ...of course, I would never tell this guy that I'm not a virgin anymore. Who knows what they'll do to me. =) BF understands my concerns. He wouldn't even hold my hand around my family and he always stands at least 1 feet away from me to protect my reputation, let alone let my parents have the slightest idea that I might not be a virgin anymore. ....sorry, that's why when you asked you immediately came off as one of the people I described above. All I could think of is how you'd torture your girlfriend from now on because you suspect she's not a virgin anymore. Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How To Know If A Babe Is Lying If She Claims Of Being A Virgin (14906 Views) She Greeted 9 guys During Our Outing Who She Claims Are Her Exes / My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? / Man Caught In A Sexual Act With Another Man's Wife In The Bush, She Claims She W (2) (3) (4) (1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Do people lie about their virginity?60 percent reported lying about something related to sex: 30 percent lied about how far they have gone, 24 percent about their number of sexual partners, and 23 percent about their virginity status. 78 percent agreed there was "way too much pressure" from society to have sex.
Can you tell if a girl has lost their virginity?There is no physical sign that indicates the virginity of a woman: in fact, no physical examination will be able to evaluate the virginity of a human being, man or woman. “What about the Hymen, doctor?” the hymen is an anatomical part, an elastic membrane in the vaginal canal.
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