Love that expresses itself in creative action is something much more than an emotion. It is not something which you can “feel” and “know,” remember and define. Love is the organizing and unifying principle which makes the world a universe and the disintegrated mass a community. It is the very essence and character of mind, and becomes manifest in action when the mind is whole. For the mind must be interested or absorbed in something, just as a mirror must always be reflecting something. When it is not trying to be interested in itself—as if a mirror would reflect itself—it must be interested, or absorbed, in other people and things. There is no problem of how to love. We love. We are love, and the only problem is the direction of love, whether it is to go straight out like sunlight, or to try to turn back on itself like a “candle under a bushel.” Show
Where there is to be creative action, it is quite beside the point to discuss what we should or should not do in order to be right or good. A mind that is single and sincere is not interested in being good, in conducting relations with other people so as to live up to a rule. Nor, on the other hand, is it interested in being free, in acting perversely just to prove its independence. Its interest is not in itself, but in the people and problems of which it is aware; these are “itself.” It acts, not according to the rules, but according to the circumstances of the moment, and the “well” it wishes to others is not security but liberty. Nothing is really more inhuman than human relations based on morals. When a man gives bread in order to be charitable, lives with a woman in order to be faithful, eats with (someone from another race) in order to be unprejudiced, and refuses to kill in order to be peaceful, he is as cold as a clam. He does not actually see the other person. Only a little less chilly is the benevolence springing from pity, which acts to remove suffering because it finds the sight of it disgusting. But there is no formula for generating the authentic warmth of love. It cannot be copied. You cannot talk yourself into it or rouse it by straining at the emotions or by dedicating yourself solemnly to the service of mankind. Everyone has love, but it can only come out when (people are) convinced of the impossibility and the frustration of trying to love (themselves). This conviction will not come through condemnations, through hating oneself, through calling self-love all the bad names in the universe. It comes only in the awareness that one has no self to love. 2. “You can’t live at all unless you can live fully now.” – Alan Watts3. “The most dangerous risk of all: the risk of spending your life not doing what you want on the bet you can buy yourself the freedom to do it later.” – Alan Watts4. “This is the real secret of life — to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play.” – Alan Watts5. “Problems that remain persistently insoluble should always be suspected as questions asked in the wrong way.” – Alan Watts6. “One is a great deal less anxious if one feels perfectly free to be anxious, and the same may be said of guilt.” – Alan WattsAlan Watts Quotes On Love7. “Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.” – Alan Watts8. “Money is an abstraction. It cannot, of itself, buy any pleasure whatsoever. Because all pleasures involve skill and love.” – Alan Watts9. “Love is not something that is a sort of rare commodity, everybody has it.” – Alan Watts10. “Life and love generate effort, but effort will not generate them. Faith in life, in other people, and in oneself, is the attitude of allowing the spontaneous to be spontaneous, in its own way and in its own time.” – Alan Watts11. “People who exude love are apt to give things away. They are in every way like rivers; they stream. And so when they collect possessions and things they like, they are apt to give them to other people. Because, have you ever noticed that when you start giving things away, you keep getting more?” – Alan Watts12. “Everyone has love, but it can only come out when he is convinced of the impossibility and the frustration of trying to love himself. This conviction will not come through condemnations, through hating oneself, through calling self love bad names in the universe. It comes only in the awareness that one has no self to love.” – Alan Watts13. “Peace can be made only by those who are peaceful, and love can be shown only by those who love. No work of love will flourish out of guilt, fear, or hollowness of heart, just as no valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.” – Alan Watts14. “We seldom realize, for example that our most private thoughts and emotions are not actually our own. For we think in terms of languages and images which we did not invent, but which were given to us by our society.” – Alan Watts15. “To have faith is to trust yourself.” – Alan Watts16. “Just as true humor is laughter at oneself, true humanity is knowledge of oneself.” – Alan Watts17. “Man suffers only because he takes seriously what the Gods made for fun.” – Alan Watts18. “Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.” – Alan Watts19. “You are an aperture through which the universe is looking at and exploring itself.” – Alan Watts20. “A scholar tries to learn something everyday; a student of Buddhism tries to unlearn something daily.” – Alan Watts21. “The real you is the whole universe.” – Alan Watts22. “Every intelligent individual wants to know what makes him tick, and yet is at once fascinated and frustrated by the fact that oneself is the most difficult of all things to know.” – Best Alan Watts Quotes23. “Don’t make a distinction between work and play. Regard everything that you’re doing as play, and don’t regard for one minute that you have to be serious about it.” – Alan Watts Quotes24. “We are living in a culture entirely hypnotized by the illusion of time, in which the so-called present moment is felt as nothing but an infinitesimal hairline between an all-powerfully causative past and an absorbingly important future. We have no present. Our consciousness is almost completely preoccupied with memory and expectation. We do not realize that there never was, is, nor will be any other experience than present experience. And are therefore out of touch with reality. We confuse the world as talked about, described, and measured with the world which actually is. We are sick with a fascination for the useful tools of names and numbers, of symbols, signs, conceptions and ideas.” – Best ever Alan Watts Quote25. “When we attempt to exercise power or control over someone else, we cannot avoid giving that person the very same power or control over us.” – Alan Watts26. “If you cannot trust yourself, you cannot even trust your mistrust of yourself – so that without this underlying trust in the whole system of nature you are simply paralyzed.” – Alan Watts27. “No one is more dangerously insane than one who is sane all the time: he is like a steel bridge without flexibility, and the order of his life is rigid and brittle.” – Alan Watts28. “What we have to discover is that there is no safety, that seeking is painful, and that when we imagine that we have found it, we don’t like it.” – Alan Watts29. “The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” – Alan Watts30. “Hospitals should be arranged in such a way as to make being sick an interesting experience. One learns a great deal sometimes from being sick.” – Alan Watts31. “Our pleasures are not material pleasures, but symbols of pleasure – attractively packaged but inferior in content.” – Alan Watts32. “Normally, we do not so much look at things as overlook them.” – Alan Watts33. “The art of living… is neither careless drifting on the one hand nor fearful clinging to the past on the other. It consists in being sensitive to each moment, in regarding it as utterly new and unique, in having the mind open and wholly receptive.” – Alan Watts34. “It’s better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way.” – Alan Watts36. “The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” – Alan Watts37. “You are a function of what the whole universe is doing in the same way that a wave is a function of what the whole ocean is doing.” – Alan Watts38. “Tomorrow and plans for tomorrow can have no significance at all unless you are in full contact with the reality of the present, since it is in the present and only in the present that you live. There is no other reality than present reality, so that, even if one were to live for endless ages, to live for the future would be to miss the point everlastingly.” – Alan Watts39. “If you say that getting the money is the most important thing, you’ll spend your life completely wasting your time. You’ll be doing things you don’t like doing in order to go on living, that is to go on doing thing you don’t like doing, which is stupid.” – Alan Watts40. “I have realized that the past and future are real illusions, that they exist in the present, which is what there is and all there is.” – Alan Watts41. “Zen does not confuse spirituality with thinking about God while one is peeling potatoes. Zen spirituality is just to peel the potatoes.” – Alan Watts42. “We cannot be more sensitive to pleasure without being more sensitive to pain.” – Alan Watts Quotes43. “The more a thing tends to be permanent, the more it tends to be lifeless.” – Alan Watts44. “If we cling to belief in God, we cannot likewise have faith, since faith is not clinging but letting go.” – Alan Watts45. “Through our eyes, the universe is perceiving itself. Through our ears, the universe is listening to its harmonies. We are the witnesses through which the universe becomes conscious of its glory, of its magnificence.” – Alan Watts46. “Things are as they are. Looking out into the universe at night, we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars, nor between well and badly arranged constellations.” – Alan Watts47. “To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim you don’t grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax, and float.” – Alan Watts48. “What I am really saying is that you don’t need to do anything, because if you see yourself in the correct way, you are all as much extraordinary phenomenon of nature as trees, clouds, the patterns in running water, the flickering of fire, the arrangement of the stars, and the form of a galaxy. You are all just like that, and there is nothing wrong with you at all.” – Alan Watts49. “The reason we want to go on and on is because we live in an impoverished present.” – Alan Watts50. “Try to imagine what it will be like to go to sleep and never wake up… now try to imagine what it was like to wake up having never gone to sleep.” – Alan WattsFew more thought-provoking quotes:51. “Omnipotence is not knowing how everything is done; it’s just doing it.” – Alan Watts52. “My image of me is not at all your image of me.” – Alan Watts53. “You don’t look out there for God, something in the sky, you look in you.” – Alan Watts54. “The reason we have poverty is that we have no imagination. There are a great many people accumulating what they think is vast wealth, but it’s only money… they don’t know how to enjoy it, because they have no imagination.” – Alan Watts55. “We do not ‘come into’ this world; we come out of it, as leaves from a tree.” – Alan Watts56. “How is it possible that a being with such sensitive jewels as the eyes, such enchanted musical instruments as the ears, and such fabulous arabesque of nerves as the brain can experience itself anything less than a god.” – Alan Watts57. “What the devil is the point of surviving, going on living, when it’s a drag? But you see, that’s what people do.” – Alan Watts58. “Saints need sinners.” – Alan Watts59. “Philosophy is man’s expression of curiosity about everything and his attempt to make sense of the world primarily through his intellect.” – Alan Watts60. “The positive cannot exist without the negative.” – Alan Watts61. “Everything that happens, everything that I have ever done, everything that anybody else have ever done is part of a harmonious design, that there is no error at all.” – Alan Watts62. “Meditation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the immediate moment.” – Alan Watts63. “Your soul is not in your body; your body is in your soul.” – Alan Watts64. “Life exists only at this very moment, and in this moment it is infinite and eternal, for the present moment is infinitely small; before we can measure it, it has gone, and yet it exists forever….” – Alan Watts65. “To put is still more plainly: the desire for security and the feeling of insecurity are the same thing. To hold your breath is to lose your breath.” – Alan Watts66. “For there is never anything but the present, and if one cannot live there, one cannot live anywhere.” – Alan Watts67. “There will always be suffering. But we must not suffer over the suffering.” – Alan Watts68. “You’re under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago.” – Alan Watts69. “Like too much alcohol, self-consciousness makes us see ourselves double, and we make the double image for two selves – mental and material, controlling and controlled, reflective and spontaneous. Thus instead of suffering we suffer about suffering, and suffer about suffering about suffering.” – Alan Watts70. “Really, the fundamental, ultimate mystery — the only thing you need to know to understand the deepest metaphysical secrets — is this: that for every outside there is an inside and for every inside there is an outside, and although they are different, they go together.” – Alan Watts71. “Don’t hurry anything or worry about the future or worry about what progress you’re making. Just be entirely content to be aware of what is.” – Alan Watts72. “Zen is a way of liberation, concerned not with discovering what is good or bad or advantageous, but what is.” – Alan Watts Quotes on Zen73. “What happens if you know that there is nothing you can do to be better? It’s kind of a relief, isn’t it? You say ‘Well, now what do I do?’ When you are freed from being out to improve yourself, your own nature will begin to take over.” – Alan Watts74. “To travel is to be alive, but to get somewhere is to be dead, for as our own proverb says, To travel well is better than to arrive.” – Alan Watts Travel Quotes75. “When you know that you have to go with the river, suddenly you acquire—behind everything that you do—the power of the river.” – Alan Watts76. “Only those who have cultivated the art of living completely in the present have any use for making plans for the future, for when the plans mature they will be able to enjoy the results.” – Alan Watts77. “Paradoxical as it may seem, the purposeful life has no content, no point. It hurries on and on, and misses everything. Not hurrying, the purposeless life misses nothing, for it is only when there is no goal and no rush that the human senses are fully open to receive the world.” – Alan Watts78. “Waking up to who you are requires letting go of who you imagine yourself to be.” – Alan Watts79. “Tomorrow never comes.” – Alan Watts80. “When a bird sings, it doesn’t sing for the advancement of music.” – Alan Watts81. “For eternally and always there is only now, one and the same now; the present is the only thing that has no end.” – Alan Watts82. “Everybody is ‘you’. Everybody is ‘I’. That’s our name. We all share that.” – Alan Watts83. “The future is a concept, it doesn’t exist. There is no such thing as tomorrow. There never will be because time is always now. That’s one of the things we discover when we stop talking to ourselves and stop thinking. We find there is only present, only an eternal now.” – Alan Watts84. “Nirvana is right where you are, provided that you don’t object to it.” – Alan Watts85. “The best way to convince someone is by making him realize that what you speak came from his own mind.” – Alan Watts86. “Life is not a problem to be solved, but an experience to be had.” – Alan Watts87. “We have frustration because we are fighting the changing of things.” – Alan Watts88. “To be implies not to be.” – Alan Watts89. “Buddha is the man who woke up, who discovered who he really was.” – Alan Watts90. “This whole world is a phantasmagoria, an amazing illusion.” – Alan Watts91. “There is nothing except the eternal now.” – Alan Watts92. “Most problems that are solved in a rush are solved in the wrong way, especially emotional problems between people.” – Alan Watts93. “The world is precisely the relationship between the world and its witnesses, and so if there are no eyes in this world, the sun doesn’t make any light, nor do the stars.” – Alan Watts94. “Memory creates the future as well as the past, you wouldn’t know that you were going to have anything happen tomorrow if you didn’t have something yesterday.” – Alan Watts95. “Choice is not a form of freedom in the sense of the word; choice is the act of hesitation that occurs before making a decision.” – Alan Watts96. “Every manifestation of life is impermanent. Our quest to make things permanent, to straighten everything out, to get it fixed is an impossible and insoluble problem.” – Alan Watts97. “Creative people can stimulate creativity in others, by osmosis.” – Alan Watts98. “Our image of ourselves is completely inaccurate and incomplete.” – Alan Watts99. “No amount of anxiety makes any difference to anything that is going to happen.” – Alan Watts Quotes100. “The word ‘person’ comes from the latin word ‘persona’ which referred to the masks worn by actors in which sound would come through. The ‘person’ is the mask — the role you’re playing. And all of your friends and relations and teachers are busy telling you who you are and what your role in life is.” – Alan Watts101. “Education, in the real sense, is not preparation for life, it is actually living. It is the child participating in adult concerns. And doing it now and realizing that the point of the process in which the child is engages, is not to prepare the child for the future, but to enjoy doing the thing today.” – Alan Watts102. “Faith is, above all, open-ness — an act of trust in the unknown.” – Alan WattsRELATED: Top 20 Inspirational Pema Chödrön Quotes On LifeRELATED: Top 50 Buddhist Quotes On Life, Love, Karma & Bodhidharma |